The balance between being mom 24/7 and having some form of self identification is challenging in the first 6 months. Particularly with an Exclusively Breastfed Baby (EBF). Would I change it, no. But, I have definitely figured out how to do me while having a baby glued to me.

You want to hot spring? Go camping? It’s possible. My little one wanted to be in with us the entire time but we didn’t think that was safe so, we made her a shady spot. When she fussed, she got boob in the spring and to soak for a few minutes. Win, win. Camping obviously requires some planning but it’s not impossible. We find it easiest to bed share for warmth since she’s 6mo old. But, if that’s not your thing there’s infant sleeping bags on the market.

You’d like to go hike or maybe rock climb? All possible. We adopted the mentality that you just have to rip the band aid off and try. It gets easier every time. Back is best not only for sleep but for long hikes to. Proper clothing is huge. We are big into wool over here. Bamboo, polyester they are great but skip the cotton and layer up. Have a good idea for shade if you’re going to hang out somewhere for awhile. Single pitch crag days seem to he where it’s at these days. Remember, there’s no such thing as bad weather only poor clothing choices.

Maybe you want some free time to go for a run or (insert any baby free activity). This to can be done. Plan it around a nap. If baby feeds then naps, feed then go. If baby sleeps then feeds upon waking leave after the prior feed. Get your spouse or a trusted sitter and try it out. Maybe not too far the first go just in case but feel it out. You’ll thank me later. Even if it’s 30min that’s 30min you can shut off and reset.

You CAN do anything you want to with a baby. Even if it’s as simple as taking a walk. It’s ALL possible you just have to give it a try. That’s literally the hardest part.

Happy Adventuring!